Just recently, while chilling out and listening to some tunes, I came across a song called Cool Kids by Echosmith. As guessed from the title, it acknowledges the difficulties of social life as a young adult. As a high school student, this topic definitely applies to me. Every day, we struggle with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt due to social status. Sure it’s not like Mean Girls where each lunch table is specifically divided into different cliques, but there are definitely groups one should be aware of. Cool Kids addresses this struggle to be “popular” compared to self-identity.
Throughout the song, the kids who aspire to be cool kids are compared to the cool kids themselves. I greatly admire the message Echosmith is trying to send by reminding us that popularity does not give you everything you want, and it certainly won’t affect your future. At one point in the song, Echosmith admits that the cool kids “don’t know where they’re going” as opposed to someone who has a plan for his future but is still unhappy. These lyrics point out our illogical unhappiness when those of us who aren’t popular are still set up to become successful in life.
I appreciate this sentiment as I would like to have a career in medicine. To achieve this goal, I have to put a lot of effort into difficult school work and multiple extracurricular activities. This means that I won’t always be able to attend high school football games, or hang out with friends. Cool Kids reminds me that despite what my peers and social media might say, these decisions are good and will help me in the future.
In the chorus, the lyrics read “I wish that I could be like the cool kids because… they seem to fit in”. This brings up a largely debated topic. The main reason anyone would want to change themselves is to fit in. Recent studies have shown that teens would rather be part of a “lower” social group and fit in than maybe be seen as higher in the social hierarchy and have no social identity.
Cool Kids focuses on the innate human nature of wanting to fit in. We are pressured to “be like the cool kids” because this promises fitting in. yet through hearing this song I understand that what is more important is finding one’s identity because then and only then can one know what they should do to be truly happy.